Movie #14 with him – MJ – This Is It

#14 Michael Jackson – This Is It (english) *** 3 stars (i wish it is a concert)

He is a legend.

Javascript – Void operator

Void Operator

blocks returned values
(void expression/function call)
When either an HTML A tag’s href attribute or onclick event handler contain a JavaScript expression or function call, the void operator is placed before them in order to neutralize a value they may return. The void operator assures that the value will not be assigned to the href attribute.

If this step is not taken, the page content is replaced with that value or sometimes with the client’s hard drive directory listing. The most common place this “gotcha” shows up is when the window.open() method is placed in an A tag as the href’s value:
Open Sub Window
Or Here…
do something when link is clicked

Void Operator fixes the above errors just by showing up:
Open Sub Window
do something when link is clicked
The “(0)” following the void operator is sometimes used as a place holder for the returned value, but doesn’t necessarily have to be used, but I’ve included it because you will probably see it used on occasion.

22nd October 2009 – Ongki Day

Like what I told him, it’s not that I love celebrating birthdays, but it’s with whom I am celebrating that matters.
It was a much awaited day, despite the mild fever and runny nose the night before.

Didn’t expect to be away from office on actual day, hoping to be treated like VIP in the office again, like last year. But I guess many things changed. People who used to wish me didn’t wish anymore. People who didn’t wish, left me wishes, thanks to Facebook. But how come “he”, “he”, “he” and “he” don’t send me sms anymore? They don’t remember Ongki anymore, do they?

After all, I am not really bothered with who wish and who didn’t wish. But when you are at the age of 30, the feeling of getting old is so strong and your list of friends who remember you is just like you are dealing on the casino table and doing a ‘show hand’. Okay….i’d showed my hand….these are all i have

SCH called 11.59pm and sang me a birthday song (I request geh la)
Chien Hui, Ah Yat, Chuah, GE, Trista, Feli, BoonKoon, Kenny Botak sms’ed
Chen called all the way from India
Kenson Peh 祝你生日快乐！Wish you Happy Birthday!
Hung Sing Ye Happy Birthday
Chee Hung Yong happy birthday, ongki…. wish you can dream of chilam every night
Tay Wee Fong happy birthday oo..~
Daniel Lim HaPpY bIrThDaY tO yOu
Celyn Chin Dear Ki Ki, Happy Birthday to you…. May all your wish come true. Happy always… cheers!
Woei Boon HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
Pink Yee Hello~ Happy Birthday~ May all you wish come true and always have a best day for today^^
Ida mc… ? hehehe enjoy your birthday today ya…^_^ emailed
Ks Chin 金祥 Hahaha chee fai “die sei”………Happy B’day too Ongki!
Gary Lee Happy birthday Ongki..faster get marry la
Hwe Sinn Lee happy birthday to my leng lui…(leng ah ma)..
Ingrid Jojo Happy birthday sister
Ck Woon Happy birthday to u too……….
Fei Wong happy birthday elaine ^^
Joanne Kong Happy happy birthday my dear cuz. Wish you all the best and a big MUAX!
Carl Chen tear for happiness…Happy Birthday to you….welcome to big 30…keke
Lee Aik Guan selamat hari jadi…
Tiff Teo Happy Birthday!!!
Lai Ming Ee Happy Birthday…
Celine Lee Happy birthday…my dear friend!!!
Joshua Chong cheers! happy birthday~
Loo Mee Happy birthday to u…..
Wn Weinah happy birthday to you, wish you have a special and wonderful day :_)
Becky Cheong Happy Happy Birthday…..
Lim Sing Yee Happy Birthday Ongki!! May all your wishes and dreams come trueeeeee
Nguk Pui Np Hat Bee Bird Dad! May all ur wishes come true!!
Aiboon Teoh Happy Birthday Ongki!!:D
Anne Chong Happy Birthday!! Wishing you nothing less than what your heart desires!!!
Christine Leong Sang yat fai lok! Hope ur birthday is a blast!
Mindy Yoong Happy Birthday!! Have a great one!
Tiong Ghee Nio HI Ongki! happy B’day!!!!!!! May ur special day be wonderful!!!
Kelly Chow Dear Friend, Happy Birthday…Wish you all the best in coming years….smuakkksss…a birthday kiss for u…
Cindy Tan Happy Birthday Ongki ! Have a good one * Kim Hwa here, btw…
Calvin Tiew Keh Feng happy birthday…
Regine Tan Happy Birthay!
Yunmun Kwong happy birthday ongki
Dylan Tan Happy Birthday Elaine….
Christy Cheah Happy birthday to u…….. Wish u all the best ya!!!!
Kenson Koh happy birthday… may your dreams come true.
Bernice Soo Happy Birthday… Ongki.
Lai Ping Chong Hi ongki, Happy Birthday ah! May all your wishes come true!
Ferdinand Yoong Borrow post… Happy birthday to Elaine
PingEng Goh Elaine, happy birthday to u…wish u happy forever^_^
Joy Tay Happy Birithday elaine…hope u have a great one…cheers =)
Ooi Jack Son happy Birthday to you
Andrea Ho Happy birthday!
Nicole Nadiah Kuan hi ongki, happy birthday.. hope u have a most memorable one this year and all the best..
Michelle Kong happy birthday !! may the best of health be with u ah!
Faizah Fadzil eh, happy Birthday 2u too….. Many happy returns… ^_^
Zchai Lim hohoho… lao chabo, happy birthday! all d best to ya! cheers!
YP Loo Happy Birthday …
Tiffany Boon 生日快乐！！ my dearest sis !may all ur dream come true !!!
Siew Jiun Hui Ongki, Happy Birthday ~ ^^
Rachelle Foong 冯彩晶 happy birthdayyy
SweetFong Ho Happy Birthday to you! May all your days fill with love and laughter!
Intan Abdul Guthoos Wish u a Very…… Very …… Very….. Happy Birthday….to u…..
Firdaus Mazelan happy bday . wish u good health . wealth . happiness . ^^
萧美英 祝您生日快乐，开心每一天。
Angie Ng Happy birthday to u!!
Deborah Danker Happy Birthday !!
Sudeshram Subbaraman Happy Birthday!
Andy Tan Tan happy birthday!
Yinru Tan Happy Birthday!!!
Kah Yee Chow many many happy returns of the day…
Serene Wong Happy Birthday !!! just in time, before the day end !!
Clarice Yap Happy Birthday….wish u have tears of happiness, tears of laughter…
Max, Chan Si, Yen Ting, Eric, How Sing, Hui Kee celebrated with me at The Gardens.
Mei Yee HAPPY BIRTHDAY ONGKI !!!!! wishes u ching chun siong ju…Happy always n loaded with $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

Life, however, is just like a short stage play revolves around me on that special day of mine.
The beloved father of a friend of mine left the world. I am sure she must be really sad. I can’t help but to pray and hoping she and family can be strong. I am sure uncle is proud to have the girls.
Another friend of mine, gave birth to a princess named, Jenna at Japan. And her own birthday is on 23rd, the following day.

生(life)、老(old)、病(sick)、死(die), who can escape? I am living now, getting older, will eventually fall sick and then die. We must learn to enjoy every single minute of our life time, and not celebrating it only once a year on birthday!
I was thinking, if i can live up to 90 years old, the first 1/3 already passed, and now is just the starting of the 2nd 1/3, and definitely the prime time of my life! 3/3 already no fun because by that time I must be old and started to lose my teeth and forgetting friends.
I am really glad, I am healthy, I am pretty, I am smart, I am ambitious, I am being loved, I am blessed!

On that day itself, I was not at work due to my runny nose. Manager told me to rest well and said don’t see email, don’t work and do something that I have been wanting to do for long time and enjoy this one special day of the year. I think hard but can’t think of any, except to spend a lovely and enjoyable evening with my love, which I have been wishing for the past 30 years.
I left home in a dress I seldom wear, put on my perfume, put on my diamonds, waited for him at KLCC.
Meanwhile I was looking around of what to buy for myself as birthday gift.
Doesn’t know how, it came across my mind to get something special for him. I wish he’ll be happy. And if he’s happy, so do I already. And I bought him a GAP thermal layered shirt, hoping to keep him warm when he’s working at JPN.

And he, prepared a gift and a handmade card for me. I actually requested him to make a birthday card for me, few weeks before that day. And he did. It is a very cute card. Straightforward, neatly colored and bordered, simple, and very detailed illustrated. Look at the fine lines of the candles. And he obviously loving the colors Green with Yellow. I think this card simply reflects his mind. He is a very detail person, who is always looking for perfection, and most important, everything has to be done clear cut and clean.

Me too, bought two cards for him, a Thank You card and another ‘We are different sometimes but …’ card.
I love both the cards, hoping he understand my meaning.

And then we headed to San Francisco for dinner. The environment is nice, romantic, with candle light(short one), lol.

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I love it

I thank god for everything I have. Thank God.

“Do big thing” – 做大事

He’s right. I can’t be lazy and being so dependent anymore.
I need to really ‘wake up’ if I want to achieve something great in life.
做大事!!! 做大事!!! 我要做大事!!!!

張智霖 – 妳太善良

Wonder when will his new album be on sales. Would like to grab it as a gift for my own.

Five tips to help you become a great leader

No. 1: Become a small picture kind of boss
It’s critical that you help everyone understand the overall goals and objectives of the organization. But don’t forget that the best leaders also help translate those goals down to the smallest details of individual jobs and help their employees make the connection. Learn to help everyone — at every level — understand how his or her specific contribution can make the whole organization more successful.

No. 2: Develop your memory
Think back to the first time a highly respected leader remembered your name. It felt pretty good, right? Like you counted. The best leaders remember names, job roles, hobbies, partner’s names, and more. It’s amazing to watch them go through a series of meetings and see just how good their memories are. And it pays off — people work harder for leaders who care enough to remember personal things about them.

No. 3: Track how you spend your time
The best leaders and managers spend their time where the biggest payoff is likely to come. But despite their best intentions, many leaders spend too much time on fighting fires or dealing with problem people. To see how you’re doing, regularly take out your calendar and review how much of your time you spent with who and on what. If you see a pattern in your behavior — like investing too much time dealing with the whiny guy who always has troubles in his department instead of with the positive guy who always delivers on his commitments, you may want to make some changes to your time management.

No. 4: Don’t demi-task
Do you listen 100 percent of the time or are you usually mentally engaged in several things at once? Effective leaders know that NOBODY can multi-task effectively over the long haul. They’ve figured out how to focus with laser-like precision. Their team members learn that their boss is really on top of things and can’t be bluffed. This makes the team better at being clear and precise in their communications to you. And that saves time and energy for everyone.

No. 5: Nuke the Blackberry when you’re at home
Many executives feel the organization would fall apart without them. They think it s imperative to always be available to take a message and “fix” things. But, lots of very successful leaders relegate voicemails and emails after hours to a bare minimum. They can do that because they have a great team in place and they trust the people who work for them. And, the bottom line is that your time AWAY from work is critical for remaining mentally sharp, creative, and motivated.

These are just few of the ways IT leaders can build a more successful organization, and I’ll leave you with one more: Celebrate success. Even in downtimes, you can find something that’s going well and mention it during your meetings or in emails. When you celebrate the little wins, you encourage more of the same behavior from others. And soon, you’ll have bigger things to celebrate.

Interesting first quarter of October

It wasn’t a smooth beginning of October. It was sad, disappointing, exciting, threatening and surprising.
Despite the good ending of a wonderful September where my best buddy had his wedding, it was just a series of failures when people tried to challenge my E.Q. I am obviously, far and away to be a proactive person, although I keep saying that I am learning to be one.

The first incident should be Disaster #2 with him. Don’t want to complain anymore, I have to learn to trust him, although he said he isn’t sure what to do himself. I believe, as long as his heart is with me, I need not worry.

It was the second incident that happened around the office that triggered my anger the most. No wonder people always say, ‘doing good deeds will not surely getting good returns’. 好心没好报， 想别人开心， 反而自己受伤害。 I never expect to get any good return anyway. Being happy with everyone is already my best reward.
I know the reason why that person want to do something to against me. He is trying to get my attention but too bad, what he did did not just invoked my anger and sadness but also a reason to give him a “slap” and wake him up to face the reality. The reality is, ‘Haw’ already found a new cheese and she wishing that ‘Hem’ too, will start moving and accept change! I think I can apply the “Who Moved my Cheese” story here.
Haw has been trying to ignore, keep quiet and never respond to any of his action. She does not feel guilty because she knows she did the right thing to move away from the cheese-less station. It just won’t work.
Hem, on the other hand, torturing himself, being negative, being soul-less, getting worse than just being an introvert. Haw doesn’t want to see Hem behaving like this. But keeping quiet will not help. She is sure time can help. But to her dismay, Hem is still hiding at that cheese-less station feeling miserable everyday.
Haw has to ‘bark’, no choice. Haw decided that it’s time to play the cruel part.
Haw even showed to Hem what’s the new cheese look like. Showed him how Haw is happy and contended by moving on to a new cheese. Haw wishes Hem can start moving and leave that place. Keep moving please!

After all, I think, and strongly believe this Haw and Hem story is just the reflection of my karma. KARMA.
Yes, I was once a Hem. A stubborn, stupid, not willing to move Hem. Another Haw already got married.
Today saw his wedding dinner pictures. Staring deeply into his face, looking at his expression. I asked myself, ‘…what do I feel?’. Weird, I can’t describe. What is this feeling? Does not hurt but heavy…weird, just weird. I then asked GE, he said those are a ‘so close yet so far’ feeling, That is someone who was once so close to you. Yes, exactly. Life is so unpredictable, but believe it or not, I am sure almost everyone in the world will experience this kind of feeling in their lifetime. Now I experience it, later someone else will do when they are looking at my soon to be wedding pictures. I believe so, I really do. This is call KARMA.

Okay, back to the next unexpected incident that eventually took a sharp turn.
It could end up to be a misery but thank god I heard voices all over that we have to appreciate what we have. Miscommunication can be solved, lack of understanding can be solved, disagreement can be solved…with one word, ‘LOVE’. As long as we still love each other, there is nothing such as impossible.
Thank you Chee Yan, I heard you.
What came to my surprise was how guys are so sensitive when I blog about our story. Erm, maybe I should learn to ask for permission. I will never give up writing my personal feelings on my blog. The contentment of writing and re-reading it is such a wonderful experience.
We then finally came to a conclusion by being more systematic. We kept a list of each others like and don’t like list. In the future, we’ll look at where we can tolerate and improve for each other. Haha, thinking about that now, I think thats the report card for each other after 6 months probation period.
When someone said he is an ‘intern’, I told him, ‘…your probation almost fail’. lol

Want to see my report card?

And his? Cannot be disclosed here, he won’t let me do so.

I have to thank god, after we managed to survive through this incident, our love bond got stronger and he does talk sweetly to me sometimes. I have confidence, we can go longer with this.

I hope the next next and next weeks of October will be happy ones. My favorite month, October

Movie #13 with him – Surrogates

#7 Surrogates (english) **** 4 stars (surprisingly very good)

I thought this is just another Terminator alike movie. (I wish the poster can be something different).
When he asked if we want to watch a movie, I immediately know it must be “Surrogates” since I am sure he must be excited with this “kind” of movie. It turned out to be a mistake to think its “kind” is something similar to Terminator. This one, however, I feel is more attractive, leaving me plenty rooms of imagination after finished watching. I am every now and then thinking, which should my “unit” looks like? Carina Lau? Michelle Reis? Maggie Cheung? Does the “unit” eat? drink? sex???

Recommended.

雨过天晴了 – After Gloom Comes Brightness

Settled already. No need B.U.
Now we got agreement on hand. At least next time fight, we got a limit.

雨过天晴 (雨過天晴)
[yǔguòtiānqíng]

1. the sun shines again after the rain—after gloom comes brightness

taken from nciku

Protected: 分手快乐 – Happy Breaking Up