Recaps : Ongki in 2005
Jan
- still with NZ.MY
- was in good term with IV and YP.
- We played In-Between, somewhere around CNY. I was very unlucky, lose some money.
- Two days before 1st day of CNY, gathered at AY’s house.
- There were AY, CKY, CCY, MS and I. We played blackjack. Won a David Tao’s CD. AY the big loser.
- Third day of CNY, visited Ipoh. Drove my Avanza, with WB and GE.
- Met HL and stayed at his godparents house. HL family was there too.
- They were celebrating his godmom’s birthday. Almost met his whole family.
- We got to meet others coursemates like AChoy and LS, NC and BH (the first and last time meeting her mom), MA and MH and lastly SC.
- At night, we went to a pub, chit chat and played some games to ‘finish’ up the alcohol.
- CY and I both drunk. She even fell down by the roadside 
- I was very unhappy with her presence, they did flirt with each other. I was unhappy and mad but no way to release. I cried…and at the same time, I recalled AD. I think I hate Ipoh.
- I was tired of crying, HL pat on my shoulder and he even did something which I think is quite warm…brotherly act…nothing more than that, just that it’s my first time.
- The last night, before returned to KL, went K with CY’s friends, it was the most torturing night for me. I was hoping to return KL asap. But the fact is nobody realised what was wrong with me.
Feb
- angry with her. did not answer her call. i was mad.
- she did what promised. sent bouquet of *teddy bears* to my office.
- i was not at all happy. anger covered my heart, brain and eyes. (i couldn’t believe i did that!!)
- I chased my friend away.
I blame no one but myself. But at the same time, I couldnt control the bottom of my heart to hate them.
March
- the birth of WLJ 8411.
- the first phase of the “chi9sin” disaster, but survived it.
- started to find a way to “run”.
I promise this is the ending of all…
- it was just the beginning!
Apr
- joined CIS at TPM, a very different environment where all colleagues communicate in Mandarin.
- the sickness of “chi9sin” spreaded from heart, to brain and destroyed thinking system.
- the last phase of the sickness and “certified” as well.
- “chi9sin” = fall for a guy, try to stay away from him but he said he needs u but only as friend, then he angry cox u still chose to go, but when u realised u dun wish to end the friendship, he said NO and turn around to go after your best friend whom u confided in when u were sad.
- the consequence? after work, went to Taman Tasik Permaisuri, felt the feeling of coldness, under the rain for more than 2 hours.
- will never forget the Malay guy who seems to worry so much about my safety, that he accompanied until i finally agreed to go home.
I am lost
May
- 4th – BL gave birth to a boy, Eugene.
- defined GHOST
- was totally dissapointed with him.
June
- the job at CIS was the bussiest ever.
- stationed at CNI. Travelled all the way to Shah Alam every morning.
- worse still, gotta fetch the china guys after they shifted to The Summit, every morning.
- got really close to Sky, Doris, Eunice, David…almost everybody in the CNI office.
- it was like war everyday. work from morning till midnight.
- almost lost all of my friends who called to ask me out and i can only respons by saying i gotta work, even on Sat and Sun.
- 18th – Li San wedding. Spent a lot to get good dress, shoes, makeup, hairdo…everyone were surprised to see me no longer the fatty Ongki.
- glad to see LS happily got married.
July
- got offer from Insync, SG.
- decided to go
- was offered by MsHeng to go China at that time, but i still chose SG
Aug
- first time in SG. was proud of myself. never been this *strong* before.
- settled everything in SG by myself, but of course, there were aunt and chenyee who helped a bit here and there.
Sept
- Was going all fine in SG. Good job, good boss…
- Until the news about mom admitted to hospital for operation on her broken leg.
- Two weeks after, even dad was sicked and admitted to hospital too.
- i was very angry with Sabina, told her that my dad was tired taking care of her kids, but still, nothing she can or want to do.
- not bad enough, the same day, at night, brother’s turn to hospital, involved in accident.
- was worry and keep thinking what’s wrong with my family.
- luckily sister and engkian was there safely, and take care of the family.
- 17th – Huey Jia wedding. The most enjoyable, yet tiring.
Oct
- physical sickness will soon be cured, but mentally sick is dangerous.
- father was behaving strange, even mom were shocked.
- he quarrelled with mom, keep talking about he’s *going* soon and said he prepared everything good enough. said he’s tired working…complaint mom only asking for $$$.
- his words were really cruel, stabbed into my heart.
- even sold my Avanza.
- 22nd – my birthday, wai leng’s wedding.
Nov
- father got well.
- 26th – AiBoon wedding. Bought a Daniel Yam dress at S$125. The most expensive dress I’ve ever bought in my life.
Dec
- 11th – Chilam and Charmaine in KL to promote Astro Awards.
- the happiest day ever.
- Doris invited me to rejoin CIS and based in Beijing.
- After struggling for about a week, i agreed.
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It was a tiring and exciting year.
Family, career, relationship…all changed.
Best Friend of 2005 : LS
Worst Friend of 2005 : GE
Best Company of 2005 : CIS
Worst Company of 2005 : CIS
Best Wedding of 2005 : AB’s
Best Bride of 2005 : HJ
Best Groom of 2005 : AB’s
Ongki Best Dress of 2005 : Daniel Yam, from SG
Best City of 2005 : Singapore
Worst City of 2005 : KL
