Bye bye 2011! Welcome 2012!

Didn’t realize that I didn’t set any resolutions “last” year. Only found the Recaps of 2010.

Alright, I should start the year of 2012 with some good SMART resolutions.

1) To clear all my credit card debts
2) Save enough for a trip to Australia or Germany
3) Move into our new house and set up our “home”
4) Pick up cooking skill and to cook every Sunday evening for daughter and husband
5) Not to be too late to work
6) To learn the skill of being a Business Analyst
7) Attend photography classes to take better pictures
8 ) Resume MBA classes, take up at least 1 module
9) Keeps blogging
10) Try to “produce” a brother or sister for Elise

Summary of 2011

1) Feel challenged for started a new role as Business Analyst in Jobstreet.com

2) Surprise Elise won mysimplifieds.com Cute Baby Contest

3) Blessed for Elise’s first birthday

4) Excited as Elise started her Right Brain development classes in HEGL.

5) Bought our first house together – a landed single storey house at Taman Tenaga, Cheras for RM370k

6) Sad that Steve Jobs passed away

7) Bought my Canon D60 – main purpose is to capture good pictures at Japan

Had a wonderful holiday at Japan with husband

9) Elise had fever fits, being admitted to hospital. Papa and I stayed with her for 4 days 3 nights at Pantai Cheras.

As a mother, I don’t see myself accomplished much in 2011 except that I have brought up my child up to the age of 1 year and 2 months old. She is super active, playful and naughty. She got admitted to hospital due to fever fits and I should be responsible for that because of my careless and ignorance on handling a fever child.
As a wife, I think I have failed, at least I am getting much more complaints than compliments from him. Wait…don’t think so I got compliment. To delivery our baby was a 2010 achievement!
Can’t bother much about how well I am doing as a daughter or sister in law. I tried my best.

Didn’t update blog much, don’t have a lot of time especially when Elise is around. Work isn’t as stable. My role will be changed soon, I hope to a better one, can’t tell now…

Looking forward, really hope that we will move into the new house smoothly and get to do some renovation, to have a better environment and growing space for our daughter. Will still try for a dragon baby and hopefully it’s another year of my biggest achievement too.

I really don’t wish 2012 is the ending of the world as everyone is speculating. There are still a lot more that I wish to do and experience in my life.

Preparing my Recaps of 2011, which I have been doing for the past years.
Mood now may not be the best to recall things objectively, had some arguments with hubby.
Will still try to rub away tears and see future.

May the year of 2012 bring my family and I best of health, lucks and if possible, give me some wealth to overcome my never-ending financial issue

Bye bye 2011, you serves us not too well, but you will still be missed and remembered. Thank you anyway.

Unfortunately I don’t believe 2012 will be the end of the world.
Thus, we still have to prepare for a better 2012.
2012, is time for me to do a lot of corrections, on what I have done wrong in 2011.

I realised, me myself is no longer just myself, I finally feel it now.
Who am I?
- a wife
- a mother
- a daughter
- a sister
- an employee
- a daughter in law
- a friend

Looking at myself in term of each of the above position, I ain’t doing good in 2011. Not at all, at least my daughter had been admitted to hospital, and I would admit it was partially my fault.
It is definitely a failure in being a wife, because my husband has been complaining every now and then.
I am not a good daughter because I can’t even afford a trip with my parents after so long pledging to do that.
I am also not a good sister because I am still too coward to concern over her.
I am definitely not a good daughter in law because I am still protecting my own family, rather than being sacrificing.
I am not a good friend because I have neglected a lot of friends. Feeling myself started to lost a lot of them.

How should i start to make these corrections?
2012 in just 20 days…it’s time to review, and correct myself.

My undying obsession with Chilam…
This picture looks extremely interesting…
And oh yeh, i subscribed to his weibo here, http://weibo.com/chilamcheung

Registered the right brain development course for Elise.

Not sure if she will able to focus and cooperate during the lessons but we’ll try our best. Didn’t thought we would enroll that soon but i think it’s fated because we just happened to ask the question about brain development to Phinie and she told us her daughter is already attending the lessons.

RM450 per month, affordable but what I don’t like is that there isn’t any replacement class. Missed class means money flies…